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Author's Foreword

Introduction

Acceptance

True Accomplishments

The Value of Action

The Value of Action(2)

Accepting Advice

Anger

The Positive Side of Arrogance

Faulty Assumptions

Attentiveness

Attitude

Attitude (2)

The Proper Attitude (3)

Awakening the Jewish Spark; The "Pintele Yid"

Jewish Roots - A Sense of Belonging

Bravery

The Benefit of a Broken Heart

Challenge

Change

Child-Rearing

Choices

Honoring G-d's Choices

Compassion

Competition

Concentration

Inner Conflict

Eternal Connection

Crisis

How to Give Criticism

Depression

The Importance of Eating

Education

Effort

Empathy

Channeling Enthusiasm

Equanimity

Balancing One's Excitement

Excuses

Faith

Fame

Finding G-d

Flexibility

The Proper Focus

Goal Setting

Achieving Goals

Gossip

Gratitude

Hastiness

Healing

Good Health

A Happy Home

Humility

Positive Hypocrisy

Hypocrisy (2)

Identity

Influence

Inspiration

The Power of Intellect

Introspection

Judging Others

Judgmentalness

The Wisdom of a True Leader

Lifting Spirits

Creating Light

Living in the Moment

Lust

Materialism

What Matters

Meditation

Moodiness

The Truth About Motivation

Life's True Necessities

Missed Opportunities

The Pitfalls of Perfectionism

Persistence

Advice for Personal Growth

Proper Planning

Finding the Positive in the Negative

Possession

Prayer

True Prayer

Purpose

Quality of Living

Rationalization

Rationalization (2)

Reaching Out to Others

Security

Security (2)

Self-Assessment

Self-Concern

Self-Control

Purposeful Self-Denial

Self-Esteem

Self-Sacrifice

Slander

The Power of Speech

Success

Suffering

The Power of Thought

The Proper Use of Time

Toil

Toil (2)

Understanding Tragedy

Making the Best of Tragedy

Truth and Honesty

Who Are We?

Worry

Maintaining Youth

Chassidic Soul Remedies
Inspirational Insights for Life's Daily Challenges

Judgmentalness

Rabbi Dovid Shraga Polter

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  Judging OthersThe Wisdom of a True Leader  

Reb Hillel Paritcher desired to see the Alter Rebbe, but each time he would arrive in the city that the Alter Rebbe was currently visiting, he would miss him. So he decided to make sure to arrive first at the next place the Alter Rebbe was destined to be. To further insure that he would meet the Alter Rebbe, when he arrived at the next destination, he went directly to the home where the Alter Rebbe would be staying and hid underneath the bed.

Reb Hillel prepared a question in the tractate of Erachin to ask the Alter Rebbe. As soon as the Alter Rebbe entered the room - even before Reb Hillel had a chance to emerge - he heard the sing-song of the Alter Rebbe: "If a yunger man (young man) has a question in Erachin, he must first be maarich (evaluate himself)." Immediately, Reb Hillel fainted, and by the time he was revived, the Alter Rebbe had already left.

The explanation of the story as it pertains to us is this:

Erachin, [lit., the monetary value of people as it relates to various situations in Torah law,] is illogical. The ruling is that the process of evaluation is based on a person's years, not his qualities. All people of the same age carry the same value. At first glance one may ask: "I have spent all my life engaged in Torah and Divine service, of which G-d must be very proud. Should my years not be valued higher than those of the ordinary person? The other person's years went to waste, so how could both of our years be valued as equal?"

To this we tell him: When one has a question in Erachin (the "Value of People"), he must first evaluate himself, and automatically his question will be resolved.

Likkutei Sichos, vol. 2, p. 401


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